Sex & The City 2 hits theatres on May 28th, so my girl friends and I have decided to use the next couple of months to cover our favorite show episodes over Drinks, carbs, and scandalous man talk.
My Gals: Bombai, Brianne, Vanessa
The Drink: “Bombai’s PomPagne ”
Week 1 Episodes:
# 6 : Secret Sex- “Is secret sex the ultimate form of intimacy?”
# 9 : Turtle in the Hare- “In a City of great expectations is it time to settle down for what you can get?”
Episode 9 found us in our element. We are all young, professional, single (minus bombai), quintessential L.A women, searching for chivalry and romance in a city of excess. Los Angeles, the home to everybody that thinks their a somebody has bred a generation of single men who, even when 30+ believe “Kickin it”, “Hanging out”, and “going dutch” (every time) is the recipe for romance…or at least a fast track to sex. In my Carrie voice I ask you…Is it really too much to ask to be treated like a Woman?
And while I’m at it…Traditional Roles much? I would love to go back in time and date when there was no text, sext, email, skype, twitter, myspace, or facebook courtship.
Granted, being that I’m a serial dater who has the same attention span for love that a 3 yr old has for all things Sparkly, I might be a tad contradictory. But, what I lack in being able to commit (so far), I make up for with my excellent people watching skills and my overly active social life. 
Before my gals and I clumsily went our separate ways (PomPagne!), we all agreed that 1. It’s the little details we wish more men would care about, and 2. We don’t want to end up in the childless, unmarried, 45 and still going to Taco Tuesday trap that many a ambitious women has fallen into. Oh, and Vanessa thinks we should all start dating men from NY…jury’s still out on that.
Next Week: Episodes #11, #12 and #14
xoxo,
Devi
LOVE THE POST. Great way to sum up our hours-long pow wow over these “interesting” LA men. And yes, no jury out for me…New York men have it all: ambition, attitude, “swag”, intelligence, dinero (lets be honest), and spontaneity! What else could a girl ask for?! Can’t wait for next week!
This is great – you summed up our evening well. Chivalry and courtship is not dead. Step it up, boys:)
I have to agree with Vanessa i love NY men for the same reasons … and i definitely dont think its to much to ask to be treated like a WOMAN! Unfortunately the generation of Men that we are dealing with weren’t raised to know how to treat women right, and even more unfortunate neither were the young women out here, so they put up with and deal with the BS that these lames feed them. *sigh* its a vicious endless cycle … i still believe there are some good ones out there tho, some of the confused ones have potential they just need to grow and learn more.
preach SUNNY!!!
I think this is a GREAT post, I think the same way…I’m tired of
just dating, where is the Love?! All LA men want is the fast life,
sit the hell down an be committed. Oh yea NY men are bomb too lol.
I not sure if this site is for women only, but as a man I would like to interject. First ladies, you’re in the entertainment biz, you’re going to get bullshit lines from bullshit guys all day, it’s the Hollywood way (into some panties). Now if you ladies want that old school love, you need to get with someone out side the entertainment industry, maybe a church boy or something like that. Someone laid back like myself…lol. Though I am in the entertainment field myself, I don’t go to the Hollywood parties and all that, and if I did, it would be to network. The bottom line (and the reason I decided to write) is because: one I’m a LA brotha, born and raised, and I believe some women don’t really know what they want until they’ve tried everything else (Devi Dev). Two, some of us (women and men) don’t know a good thing when we have it, be leave me, it’s a hard lesson to learn. And third, there is some good dudes out here, you just have to weed through them, you’re in Hollywood duh!!! All jokes aside ladies, I wish you all the best with your endeavors and as for you Devi Dev, I’m watching you sexy little moma. Ain’t no reason for you to be single, that’s on you I’m sure. Believe me all us guys want a fine ass chick like you. And as far as you’ll switching to NY niggas, please, them fools don’t have nothing on us…period. No disrespect, just my personal biased opinion.
Are they not going to change the cast of Sex and The City ? the girls in there are getting old already.:’;